LoveAlive
Couples Counselling
Tired of Struggling in Relationship?
You may find yourself stuck in zones & tones of disconnect in your relationship
and, even through well intended efforts, it's challenging to find the way home to
yourself & the beloved you once felt so connected to. How has this happened?
What is it really all about?
What possibilities are there to grow
through these challenges & feel a Love even more
profound than when you first began?
Unless you make a new choice, the same
things continue to happen.
Couples Counselling can help with issues such as
Communication
Conflict
Patterns that Sabotage Relationship Satisfaction
Distance or Sense of Disconnect
Reactivity
Stagnant Relationships
Emotional & Sexual Intimacy
Infidelity
Betrayal
Safety & Trust
Boundaries
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek
& find all the barriers within yourself
that you have built against it.” ~
Rumi
Embracing New Possibility
Relationships can be one of our greatest sources of nourishment &
catalysts for personal growth.
When we learn to embrace the challenge of triggers & upsets in relationship as
opportunities for greater self knowledge, self Love, intimacy, & connection, we are
at the threshold of major life transformation on all levels.
In counselling, you will both be supported to take new steps toward healing your
relationship & develop the skills necessary to transform the challenges in your
relationship into a doorway to profound Love, Intimacy, & Joy.
Couples Counselling with Rebecca
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor
In our sessions, I meet you where you’re at & I am deeply dedicated to offering a neutral perspective and a fair process, mediating for the benefit of both people as we work toward greater understanding, connection, healing, and healthy outcomes for you both.
I will support you to develop important communication skills and offer powerful
experiential processes to guide each of you through and beyond your defences, to get in
touch with one another on a deep level, bring compassion to your core struggle and
support you to create healing & transformation there. You'll be guided to create
new patterns of connection, emotional responsibility & loving intimacy.
I offer you a safe, sacred space, deep empathy & presence, personal authenticity &
excellent therapeutic support with training in multiple modalities to support your unique
journey of healing & transformation.
(Relationships & communication are a special interest for me. My Couples counselling & Relationship Courses are
informed by leading Relationship experts such as the Gottman Method, Dr. Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focussed Therapy, the
Developmental Model of Dr. Ellyn Bader's Couples Institute, Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy, and Marshall Rosenberg's
Compassionate Communication. To learn more about the psychological perspectives I work with, you can visit our About page.)
If your relationship struggles have become unbearable or if you have simply come
to the understanding that things aren’t as wonderful as they could be & you wish
to work towards greater Thriving in Love, Intimacy & Joy,
there is hope.
I invite you to book
a free 20 minute consultation with me
Rebecca Goutal, BFA, RTC
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor
Cultivating Fulfilling Relationships
Through the Seasons of Life
Vince Wishart, RTC, NLP
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor
It's All About Relationships!
I have a Special Limited Invitation:
Transform Your Relationship with
Relational Life Therapy
50% Off Limited-Time Practicum Offer
As I complete my practicum toward certification in
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with the Relational Life Institute, I’m extending a special invitation to a small number of couples to experience this work at 50% off my regular rate.
RLT, developed by Terry Real, is a direct, compassionate, and transformative approach to relationship healing. It goes beyond traditional talk therapy - helping couples uncover the root causes of disconnection and move from blame and resentment into truth, repair, and authentic intimacy.
In our sessions, I guide couples to see the unconscious patterns that keep them stuck, and to replace defensiveness with vulnerability, responsibility, and love. Together, we rebuild communication, respect, and emotional safety—allowing each partner to be fully seen and heard.
My work blends RLT principles with somatic awareness, emotional fluency, Indigenous and spiritual wisdom, and over two decades of counselling experience. This integration helps couples not just understand each other intellectually, but truly reconnect on a heart and soul level.
If you and your partner are ready to deepen your relationship,
resolve long-standing challenges, and rediscover joy in one another,
this practicum offer is a rare opportunity to do so at a significantly reduced rate.
Spaces are limited and available for a short time.
To inquire or schedule your first session, contact me directly at [email protected]
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